Message Forum

Welcome to the Thomas Jefferson High School Message Forum.

The message forum is an ongoing dialogue between classmates. There are no items, topics, subtopics, etc.

Forums work when people participate - so don't be bashful! Click the "Post Message" button to add your entry to the forum.


 
go to bottom 
  Post Message
  
    Prior Page
 Page  
Next Page      

10/18/17 07:40 AM #471    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

Mary Lee Hudson, I can't believe you took over l00 photos for the 55th Class Reunion Page!

Wow!

 

Some of them are really nice!

(Except for the ones of me, which were obviously shot when I was not warned ahead of time!)

 

My request for 2022:

Please give us "Advance Notice" before you snap the photo!!!

My kids have learned to NEVER take a "Candid Camera" shot of me, as I will probably make "A Funny Face!"

(Or "A grumpy one!")

 

 Thanks for the memories!   You were obviously very busy snapping pix, and I was "Just having a good time!"

Mar--


10/18/17 12:37 PM #472    

 

Russell Flammia

A BIG THANK YOU, Mary Lee for taking all of the 101 pictures. Visual memories are so special and your photos just added to the reunion fun. Thank you again!


10/19/17 11:15 AM #473    

 

Lois Pollard

Yes, a BIG Thank You to Mary Lee. It especially means a lot to those of us who couldn't be there.


10/20/17 12:19 PM #474    

 

Mike Floyd

Buddy Rockit69 is devoted to the music and memories of “Old School” Richmond, VA and the surrounding area.  If you are from there and graduated high school prior to 1970 – this site is for you.  You can also be a part of the site. I hope you’ll take a few minutes and visit: Rockit69 or http://rockit69.com

Thanks, Buddy Cousins

 


10/21/17 07:03 PM #475    

 

Mary Lee Hudson (Meacham)

Marilyn, Roger took a lot of the piuctures, but next time I will give you a heads up that your picture is being taken. We had a great time and many happy memories from the reunion. Wish you weren't so far away. It is fun to look back and enjoy. Mary Lee


10/22/17 05:38 AM #476    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

Yeah, Mary Lee !   Sometimes I wish we weren't so far away, too !  You guys are in Pennsylvania, and we rarely

come that way!  If you ever plan to come in to Richmond for a visit, let me know!  You might just land there for

a weekend when we are visiting my cousins.  They are the only ones in our family still left there!

Have a great holiday season, and I will start counting the days until our #60 Reunion!!


11/08/17 05:19 AM #477    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

Just checked this page to see if there are any new comments by our Classmates this week! I guess everyone is busy getting ready for the approaching Holidays!   I know I am!   I ordered some Handmade Gifts from a friend  a month ago, and now we are searching for boxes to ship them to my family!  This year, I will be EARLY for a change!

I have been reading about 100-200 pages per week here for my new Art History class in "Anime,"  the animation films made in Japan, some of which came to the U. S. A. years later.  Some of the ones we have watched and studied so far are "Astro Boy,"  "Pokemon,"  "Sailor Moon,"  "Gigantor," etc.   I honestly do not remember seeing  ANY of these programs or movies, even though they were created long ago when we were kids or young adults.   My kids haven't seen them, either!    

So I asked around, and the only people I have found who recognized the titles were a Mom from the Philippines who married a U. S. Marine and whose daughter is a friend of my Granddaughter.  They knew every one!!!

If you ever wonder if you are "getting old,"  this is the kind of thing that really "brings it home!" Our familly has had 4 generations of GIRLS, so I wonder if anyone out there has any Grandsons who know about this stuff???

3 more weeks of class, and I am reading about l8 hours per day!!!

WHEW!!!


11/08/17 06:02 PM #478    

 

Mary Lee Hudson (Meacham)

Carol, Saw you were online. How are things in Florida now? It is very cold here now, high 40's and 50's. I'm ready for spring. Roger just sold a former teacher at my school house here so she could go back to her place on Marco Island. She will probably will rent here or stay with friends when she is here in town. I hope to visit in the spring. Hope is all well with you. Keep in touch from time to time on our website. Mary Lee


11/08/17 06:39 PM #479    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

I am also hoping that things are "back to normal" in Florida for our classmates who live there:  Carol Battige, Nancy Wallerstein, Beverly Breitstein, Linda Salsbury, and others.  It has been over a month now, so I hope that the repairs have been made and life is going on as usual !  That was a scary month or two for them all !


11/09/17 06:03 PM #480    

 

Carol Battige (Levine)

Mary Lee and Marilyn - things are getting back to normal.  With the "snowbirds" in residence now, there is more traffic and less selection in the grocery stores, but they are the life blood of our little community.  Have a few repairs left to do, but they are small.  Thanks for thinking of all of us down here.  The county is still cleaning up the debris from wind blown trees and shrubs, but almost finished.  Good to hear from you.  Carol


11/09/17 06:21 PM #481    

 

Robert Wilson

As noted on this website, TJ plays Armstrong this Saturday at 1:00 pm for a home game. This is a playoff game. TJ has had a sucessful season. Their running back has a scholarship to attend Villanova. The quarterback is also being recruited. I attended the JM game last Friday and sat next to the Athletic Director, Mr. Holt. 

 

 


11/23/17 11:18 PM #482    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

 Nice message, Russell !  I hope everyone had a nice Thanksgiving!   I am thinking about our Annual Charity Donation and trying to figure out which of the many Non-Profits will receive our Annual Donation between now and "The Big Holiday!"   I'm thinking about the Vikings Fund, Russell, because I know they are doing good work for Tee Jay.  Also, a Hospital that saves kids' lives,  and a Non-Profit which works to benefit our National Resources (my daughter works there!).  You are right!  We need to start thinking of "other people out there who has not as fortunate as we are!!!!

Carol, we will be in Florida in either January or February.  I hope we get to see you and your husband while we are there!


12/01/17 03:56 PM #483    

 

Mary Lee Hudson (Meacham)

Russell,Just a note to let you, Mike and Sue know that our daughter in law, Kim will be at the Hardywood Park Brewery this weekend with the Milk Street Soap. I don't know where it is since Richmond has changed so much since we left. Can you pass this information on to others in the class. If anyone goes tell Kim I sent you.

She just received a certificate of Appreciation for her Extraordinary CollaborativeEfforts with the Beaufort Community College. We are so proud of all she has done with Milk Street Soap to make it a great business. Have a great Christmas. Mary Lee

 

 

 

 


12/11/17 07:57 PM #484    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

Hi, Russell ! - Sorry, I've been pretty busy lately!

I can't make online donations, because I no longer use a Credit Card.  The Interest Rates are absurd, and I stopped using mine after it was stolen twice in 2006 and 2010. Do you have a street address where we can send Donations? 

Life is pretty hectic with a Granddaughter in her Senior Year of High School.  During the past two weeks,  we drove up to and back from Phoenix TWICE to see her and her fellow Cheer Squad win their 1st, 2nd, and 3rd Place Trophies in Competitions, which qualify them for a Trip to Disneyland!   In addition to that, we saw her performance in the High School Dance Program (which ran for 4 nights), her boyfriend's performance with the High School Choir, her friends' performances in the local production of "The Nutcracker Ballet," and needless to say, I am totally exhausted today, and I am "being a bum!"

I always wonder why "The Happiest Season of All" is ALWAYS so exhausting!

 


12/13/17 12:50 AM #485    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

Happy Chanukah to all my friends from Tee Jay!  

Joke of the day:  I did not even realize tonight was the first night, because neither of the two "Art Calendars"       I bought for 2017 or 2018 include the Jewish Holidays!!!   My Sister-in-Law kept posting  Happy Chanukah on Facebook, and I kept saying to myself, "She is a week early!"

My Daughter enlightened me when she stopped by to visit tonight, and she brought me a "Bubbie Doll !"  

Oboy!   I think I need to "get with the program!"

School ends on Friday, so my Granddaughter is doing her homework and studying for Final Exams, and Joel will drive down on the weekend for my Son-in-Law's Annual "Office Christmas Party," followed by my Daughter's "Chanukah Party for the Family!"  (I cannot  "keep up with that girl! ")

And if I don't get back to this page before New Year's, Merry Christmas to Everyone Else!  I hope that Santa and Rudolph and all the other Reindeer land safely on your roof !!!


12/13/17 05:06 PM #486    

 

Mary Lee Hudson (Meacham)

Marilyn, Happy Hannukah! It is so COLD! Hurry back Spring. One of my girlfriends at school had on a beautiful vest and necklace for Hannukah. What is a Bubby Doll? Did I spell it correct. I feel we have such a special class at T J. We care about each other and it comes across with our posts. Enjoy the holidays. Mary Lee


12/16/17 11:14 AM #487    

 

Mike Floyd

Russell shares some of the things

that were going on at Tee Jay this week

Capitol One project team organizing and redecorating the food pantry which is supplied by Hope Church and Westwood Baptist Church
Winter coat project for in need
'Clothes Closet' for students in need with a privacy tent donated by Capitol One for trying on the clothes

These projects were initiated by Mr. Sones IB students who are in the photos along with some of the Capitol One volunteers. 


12/22/17 04:55 PM #488    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

 

Wow, Russell !  What KIND students go to Tee Jay!  I remember the Christmas Party at the Orphanage that  the Character Committee gave when I was a student at Tee Jay, and the FTA "Breakfast for Teachers" I organized. The lessons we learned as kids are still with us today!  I always tell people here that if everyone learned what i learned growing up in Richmond, the World would be a better place!  There are some kind folks I have met here, and this season is the one for "Giving." 

Chanukah is over, and there are only 3 days left until Christmas! (I am planning to "sleep a lot" after the holiday ends!!!)

Mary Lee, "Bubbie" is an Eastern European word for "Grandma." The Doll my daughter bought for me has gray  hair made of fleece, a long blue dress, a white kitchen apron over it, and she speaks in a New York Accent with many Jewish expressions, when you squeeze her hand!  It's very funny!  Last year, my Daughter bought me the "Mensch on a Bench" doll. (It's a take-off on the "Elf on a Shelf." "Mensch" means "a good guy, "a nice person," a Gentleman!) and the Doll looks like  an old Jewish man with a beard and traditional Eastern European outfit, "guarding" the Menorah, and holding a candle in his hand !  It has an accompanying storybook!   I saw that Doll in a "Jewish Store" in Florida, and the price was pretty high.  My daughter bought it for me later on, and I hope she didn't spend that much!  She said she found the "Bubbie Doll" at Target this year. Maybe their price was better!  Discount stores are always better for shoppers than privately-owned Small Business, I guess! "The Mall" has driven many Small Businesses out-of-business in this town!

I have not gone near the Shopping Mall since early Fall, because none of us can stand the Holiday crowds. My daughter is a very smart shopper, and she took me to Dillard's "Midnight Sale" on Tuesday night, so I could find 2 dressy outfits to wear to my Cousin's 80th Birthday.in Richmond.  Everything in the store was on sale, and from 10 p.m. to Midnight, there were only 2 people in line before me!  Sometimes, I just "get lucky!" 

I hope that everyone in our class has a wonderful Christmas Holiday Celebration!  If there are any photos taken with your family members, I would love to see them on our Website !  And Happy New Year to All !


01/02/18 05:21 PM #489    

 

Jo-Ann Olkowski

Sorry I haven't been in touch lately....finally have my computer up again today thanks to Geek Squad help.  It's been a living hell since May, 2017 dealing with these people on the "dark web." All I can suggest is that everyone "arm themselves to the teeth" with whatever it will take to protect any and all communications devices you have!

So for all the life events, holidays, Holy Days, and birthdays I have missed since May ... my best to all of you.

 

I hope that 2018 will be healthier, happier and more prosperous for all of us!!


01/05/18 01:26 PM #490    

 

Mary Lee Hudson (Meacham)

Hi Everyone, Roger and I hope you have a great 2018. If this snow would go aways we could look forward to Spring. I don't think it will be going away for a while. Even our kids in Ocracoke got snow and pipes were freezing. They are not use to that. I hope everyone is doing okay with this weather we all have been having. Drop a note every now and then because we all love to hear how everyone is doing. Class of 1962 we rock thanks to Mike, Russell, Sydney and all the great classmates we have that do so much behind the scenes. Mary Lee  & Roger


01/05/18 06:30 PM #491    

 

Sally Kincannon (von Rumohr)

Hi Mary Lee!  I can’t help myself from responding to your recent message as I sit here in suburban Boston (thinking, “Why did I ever leave Richmond?”).  We have a brand new foot of snow, it’s currently 6 degrees, and the forecast for tomorrow morning is -2:-(. Happy New Year to all!  It can only get better.  Or at least warmer.....


01/05/18 07:56 PM #492    

 

Mike Floyd

Not mush better in Urbanna.  Can't remember when temperatures were last above freezing.  Highs in the mid 20's and lows around 10° with wind chills around 0°.  We got 8 inches of snow that no one knows how to handle.  Haven't been out of the house since Tuesday.

 

Things are looking up.  Predict 40° Monday and 64° next Friday.  Yea!!!


01/06/18 05:56 AM #493    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

Hello again, Fellow Classmates!

While many of you were out-of-town or spending time with relatives and friends during the Winter Holidays, we left our 68-78-degree surroundings in the Desert and ventured to Richmond for my Cousin Frankie Wolf's 80th Birthday, ---- and what a surprise!  

The temperature in Richmond was about 19-20 degrees during the weekend, and the water pipes in our hotel were frozen, leaving us EACH waiting for l5 minutes for the shower every morning during our visit.  It was hard to get out of the building on time, but we showed up for every event --- even if a bit late!

I was so glad to see Arleen Zell Kates and her Sister Sandy,  Lois Miller Padow, Sandy Gross Schneider, and Jane Norwood Boykin at Padow's last Friday!  It felt like we were back in "Lunch Period" at TJ again!  Eddie Schneider was there, too, but "my dear Joel" spent an hour sitting in his car and talking on the phone to some of his clients (who will not allow him him enjoy a vacation without a consultation), so they never had a chance to get acquainted !

The rest of the weekend was full of explorations in "Revitalized Richmond."  We completed our "Annual Tour of l9th Street & Vicinity," where my Dad grew up, and I took a lot of pix of "The Old Neighborhood" which I will post as soon as my photo-page on this  computer decides to cooperate with me and allow me to upload more than the few pix which appeared this morning, after I entered them all yesterday and many suddenly "disappeared."  That is always a place to "relive old memories."  The old synagogue across the street from my Grandparents' house is now a brand new condo, but they left the Jewish "Stars of David" over the doors!  They were doing street repairs on the corner, so I could not record on film the view of my Grandfather's Stable, where he kept the Horses and Mules he Auctioned periodically. However, I did take a great photo of "St. John's Church," where Patrick Henry gave his famous speech, so I could share it with Southwesterners who do not know "The History of Richmond,"  and "Edgar Allan Poe Museum" (where I was finally told he did NOT live; it merely houses some of his possessions and writings! His childhood home is "long gone," according to the Gift Shop Manager.). There was the old Church which lost its steeple during a bad storm, plus the iconic Main Street Railroad Station and the tall hill where my Sisters and I used to roll down on our sides when we were kids.  There are a lot of newly-painted stores in downtown Richmond, and the neighbor-hood is very lively; another generation has moved in, and it is strange to see VCU students walking down the streets there........A little further away, we met my Sisters and Cousins for Brunch at Max's, a refurbished restaurant with a winding staircase to the upstairs dining room and a ceiling-high bar and more dining space on the first floor;  the food on their menu was delicious.

Outside the front door of Max's stands a brand new statue of Maggie Walker, the First Black Bank Owner in the U. S. A., surrounded with a circle of concrete labelled:  "TEACHER, BANK OWNER, INSURANCE COMPANY OWNER, CIVIL RIGHTS LEADER," ETC.  I'm sure that folks in the Southwest have never seen or heard of our Southern Heroes in this light, so I will become the "Messenger of Good Tidings" when I reach my Yuma home next week!  (I learned that Maggie Walker was the woman who organized the "Bus Boycott" in Richmond during the late l950's. I remember that one of Richmond's high schools is named after her.  The statue of this attractive woman is a tribute to her strength and courage!)

In between 2 delicious meals at "The Grapevine Restaurant" and "Peking House" in the West End and "The Greatest Show" at the movie theatre near the old Broad Street Station (now "The Science Museum"), we participated in religious services at our still-beautiful Temple Beth-El,  and stood in line at the Virginia Museum of Fine Art to see the New Exhibit of the 2,000-year-old Warrior Statues, built by order of the First Emperor  of China for his gravesite. It is incredible that a small number of the original 1,000  statues have survived  that long, without a crack or crumble in their construction; each one is life-size or larger!  The Exhbiit also includes sculptures of a Horse, a Goose, and many Gold Artifacts found in the gravesite. If you have not yet seen this portrayal of Chinese History, mark it on your calendar before it leaves Richmond. You will never feel the same after viewing it! - it is like "living inside a World History book for an hour or two! "

While walking through the Exhibit, I met an older woman who asked where we lived now and advised me to see Louis Ginter Park before we left town.  On our last day in Richmond, we drove l5 minutes from our hotel in the West End to see the Park, which was dedicated in 1984, on the grounds of the Ginter's Homestead. Walking out on that chilly morning, we were astounded to find the architecturally-appealing and warm Greenhouse, which displayed magnificent Lilies and Orchids in many beautiful colors and sizes, plus the Christmas Tree with "Flowers Made of Ribbons," and the glass cases full of small plants, illustrating the story of "Thumbelina" with adorable tiny dolls.  It was interesting to see a collection of our "Southwestern Desert Plants" on the opposite side of the Greenhouse, as well as the Herb Garden outside, which labels many of the flowers and plants with names of those vitamins & spices I often see at our Grocery and Drug Stores: Echinacea, Thyme, etc.  One of the names on the brick walk near the water fountain belonged to our former next-door neighbor on Seneca Road;  she was an active member of the Richmond Garden Club, and I remember how my Mother used to exclaim over the flowers in her backyard. Inside the Visitor Center, I saw a familiar name on the wall - either Alex Claiborne Robins or his Dad - honoring his donation to the Park. I hope many of you were able to enjoy this during the Holiday Season; if not, make a short trip there before the Exhibit ends!  I saw a flyer at our hotel with a photo of the Spring Flower Show and I wish I could be there to see it, but Joel always works "Tax Season" in April, so I will just have to fantasize about it, and maybe one of you can photograph it for me to enjoy long-distance!

The "piece de resistance" during our trip was a visit to Miss Tankard's house on New Year's Day!  My older Sister from Ohio and I had not seen her during the past 55-60 years! - but my middle Sister from New York has made frequent visits to her "Little House in the Woods," which I discovered was just a short distance from Gwynn McNaught's former "Home-by-the-River" in Matthews  and Arleen Zell Kates' home in Deltaville. (I think we have now driven past the sign for Matthews County 3 times since last May, and I never knew it existed until then!)  We 3 Sisters all agree that Miss Tankard was THE BEST TEACHER we ever had, and she made a huge impact on all our lives!  She was so excited that I had traveled 3,000 miles to see her, and my other Sisters - at least 400-800 miles each!  Miss Tankard and her Roommate harvest Oysters in the Creek behind their house each year and give them away to friends and relatives!  They also have a little dog who begged to join us until they gave in and brought him into the living room to get acquainted. Their house is similar to Gwynn's former home in Matthews, with a long room on the left side in the back which overlooks the pier on the creek, and where they have an elongated Early American table for serving dinner to visiting family members. The entrance to their living room is via a ramp, leading to several stairs going down toward soft chairs and a sofa, in front of a built-in fireplace. It was so comfortable sitting there, we could have stayed for hours, but we had to leave for the long drive back to Richmond. It was such an enjoyable afternoon, preceded by lunch before our visit at a Family Restaurant on the outskirts of Williamsburg and my middle-Sister's "Required Visit" to the huge Antiques Store, where I was only able to see one and a half aisles of "Souvenirs of Yesteryear" before they said, "Time's Up!" I hope we are able to visit the area again soon, because I love to "go back in time" to the people and memories I had when I was young!  Miss Tankard looks very well for her 89 years!  She is a true "Survivor!" 

 (This TJ Website is the ONLY one I can access this morning.  My Yahoo! Mail and Facebook pages crashed yesterday, and I have to find my way back to "The Internet" again, even though I spent 2 hours or more with an "Apple Techy" yesterday afternoon!)  Such good memories fill my head from our trip to Virginia. Now we are back in Phoenix again, and Joel turned on the Air Conditioning last night when he came home from work, because it was 81 degrees, and he said it was "Too hot!"  I guess he doesn't count his blessings, now that we were no longer in 19-degree weather!) 

Take care, All !  - and keep my pretty City and State in good health and welfare until I am able to visit again.     I often get homesick for the place where I grew up and the folks I knew there!  I still haven't figured out how I ended up on "The Other Side of the Country," l5 minutes away from California & Mexico!  Who knew, while I was standing on the corner of Grove Avenue & Libbie, waiting for the bus to Westhampton School, that I would someday have to travel so far to see my first home?  Seneca Road is still peaceful, quiet, and beautiful, with its Georgian Brick houses standing strong, and I am living in my little condo in the hot, hot Desert of Arizona!

 


01/06/18 12:53 PM #494    

 

Mary Lee Hudson (Meacham)

Happy Birthday to all of you celebrating birthdays in January. Our son, Patrick was born on 1/13/73. Most of his birthdays ended up with snow or ice. Now our grandson, his oldest son is dealing with a January birthday. Since they live in New England they go ice skating or play basketball at a local sports center. I hope all of you celebrating a birthday in January have a great day with your families.


01/09/18 04:07 AM #495    

 

Marilyn Wolfe (Ruben)

Mike, thanks for posting my new photos on the Photo Gallery of this Website!

For those of you who do not recognize your classmates at the Luncheon at Padow's, they include

    Jane Norwood Boykin, Arleen Zell Kates, Sandy Gross Schneider, Lois Miller Padow, and Sandra Zell

    (Arleen's Sister),

plus Sandy Gross Schneider and me!

 

Also, there is a photo of me and my 2 Sisters with Miss Tankard !  My oldest Sister and I had not seen her in 

    over 55-60 years.  My middle Sister has visited her several times, and also brought her to her TJ Reunion for  

    the Class of l958 !

 

Enjoy!


go to top 
  Post Message
  
    Prior Page
 Page  
Next Page